Let It All Hang Loose!

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By: Chris Valletta

Sexpert Susie Bright let's it all hang loose in her take on the lesbian sex world through much of her own personal experience in "Susie Sexpert's Lesbian Sex World." For lesbians in the 1980s, it was hard to let loose and to fit in with straight women, especially when it came to talks about sex toys. However, Susie Bright neglects this fact and urges all women, including her fellow lesbians, to get out and use a vibrator! She wants them to let loose and to explore those secret desires that they have but are afraid to let it out in the open. Bright makes the argument that obviously, you do not need a vibrator to survive, but you also don't need to have fun to survive, or need incredible sensations to survive.

Bright's philosophy then follows that if one is not restricted in achieving fun and desires with no holds barred, then why not go ahead and explore? The survivalist view of life is one way to look at things, but Bright suggests everyone to concern themselves with "our wants, dreams, impulses, and most particularly, desires" (pg. 18). Why should there be any sort of repression? Why not achieve pleasure to the max while we are here on this earth? Nonetheless, Susie Bright has a compelling argument. There is no harm in giving things a shot and trying. While we are alive, we might as well try what we can and enjoy it while it lasts, rather than not acting and wondering what could have been for the rest of our lives.

As Bright goes into her discussion on dildo's, she reveals that this is an excellent tool for women to use to enhance their sex life. There should be no reason why women, in particular lesbians, should hide their curiosities or wants to use a dildo on themselves or with a partner. Simply put, the use of a dildo is penetration, and penetration involves both heterosexual and homosexual activities. Bright compares the use of a dildo to simple kissing, for this knows stricts no gender. The dildo is at the mercy of its user for only its own pleasurable needs. What could be better than that? Bright is so confident in the dildo's pleasurable effects that once a woman uses one, she predicts they will soon own a small collection.

In addition to the dildo, Bright also touches upon the anatomy of the vagina and where the pleasure stimulates from. Although all females have the same composition, every women differs in how they would prefer their clitoris to be handled in order to get them to achieve maximum pleasure. Also to enhance the pleasure, there needs to be an absence of fear and limits and there needs to be a willingness to completely give in to the desire that is touching upon the surface. As Bright illustrates her point, she states: "Sexual repression and lack of sensual feeling are what's epidemic and sick in our little world" (pg. 27). After all, with the opportunity for great desire and sensations, there is no down side to let it all hang loose!